We had a third incident.Nettle wrote:I think you are right on the button with why these things happened and what to do in the future. No need to worry about Pixie at all. I daresay if some oik had run up to you and pushed you and looked in your face and grinned and said "stupid old bat" you might have snarked as well.
Dad needs to be on board as well, though. Just stepping between dogs and making a body-barrier can be enough to avoid a spat.
Remember - they are dogs not angels I know you were a bit shaken up but honestly, that's just dogs being dogs.
Again, dad took both dogs to the newsagent this morning, this time met a different Jack Russell in there, which he says wasn't doing anything, but Pixie snarled and lunged and tried to bite.
I can see all the potential factors. Cortisol levels still raised from the last two things. My dad has been tense the last couple of days, I can see that transmitting down the lead. The newsagents has lots of shelving aisles, it's very tight quarters in there so I can see her feeling trapped while primed from the last Jack Russell's aggression. Dad is upset and angry. He isn't seeing it from her view, he doesn't believe she was provoked by the Vizla either.
My plan of action is: Dad doesn't walk her alone anymore. I've made my mind up to move back ASAP, and will stay here now. I will work with Pixie exclusively, to try to nip this in the bud before it escalates to reactivity completely. Take a break from seeing other dogs as much as possible, keep a distance, let her stress levels go down, work on some mind games at home and basic training.
Then work on seeing her behaviour and reactions to other dogs from a distance. See what distance she's comfortable with. I need to bone up on body language when it comes to stress and reactivity. I know many signs, and know Pixie very well, but I want to be proactive and make sure I know exactly what to look for. I want her to feel safe and confident, and to know I'm doing the best thing for her. Any other suggestions/ideas/comfort? I'm pretty upset. Blaming myself.