JudyN wrote:In that case I wouldn't volunteer for any of them....
I am in 100% agreement. you can always come back to volunteering at the shelter/rescue at another time. just because you are "only a volunteer" shouldn't mean you can't or shouldn't speak up. If there is a rule that says you can't speak up...RUN, you don't belong there.
Sophie is YOUR DOG. NO ONE...let me say this again NO ONE at that shelter/rescue can force you to do anything you don't want to do or have happen to your dog. They can offer their opinion all they want...till the cows come home for all you care. BUT it's just that, their opinion. You have final say.
Also, NO ONE...let me emphasize this even more
NO ONE there should be touching your dog without your permission. I don't care how much they disagree with your approach, or think you are a mush mellow etc. their hands don't touch YOUR DOG without YOUR PERMISSION.
sounds like in addition to all your other issues there they have boundary issues. As in thinking they are allowed to be correcting/touching a dog that isn't their's.
I agree with you, Sophie is gravitating to you because your safe. BUT if you want her to listen and respond to you, you also need to protect her. Time to step up your game. If someone had picked up Jack (my dog) and tossed him (all 4 paws off the ground) things would have not ended well and most likely would have ended up with police involve. read into that however you choose, BUT throwing a dog under ANY circumstances that is considered "training" or "correction" IS NOT ok, or justify able. It's abuse...PERIOD.
You have some thinking to do. In my opinion (and it's just mine), right now Sophie is priority. her being there in the shelter/rescue, let alone locked in a room, IS NOT helping you help her adjust and grow confident. She needs your focus and attention. your time needs to be going to her right now. So for the "short term", in my mind it's a no brainier. You quite the shelter/rescue and focus on Sophie.
Long term, that is where the "you have some thinking to do" comes in. long term you need to think about if you can maybe be a "change agent" for the shelter/rescue in your area. it would clearly be an up hill battle. You are going to probably need to go develop some "street credibility" so to speak first. Something along the lines of "remember Sophie...look at these titles, ribbons, things we did" Or maybe, hey I have a certification in X and I know what I am talking about etc Or maybe just walk away and find some other why to help dogs in your area.