Learn how to help your dog through the chaos of the holidays to keep everyone safe, happy and calm.
Some pups would bark “bah humbug!” if they could. They just don’t appreciate the holiday spirit in the way we humans typically do.
Everything in their lives is upside down during this time. The family is busily trying to attend to last-minute shopping and frazzled attempts to keep up with the kids’ Christmas parties and recitals. Meanwhile, at work, end-of-year deadlines loom and you feel the pressure.
You are frantically trying to get the house in order for the big holiday party as periodically and unexpectedly well-meaning friends and neighbors drop in.
Our dogs respond to holiday chaos too
Of course, some dogs go with the flow. But some don’t. The change of routine throws them, and they actually pick up on your stress but have no idea why you’re so frazzled.
Other dogs don’t appreciate all the company. If they bark at the visitors, it’s not because they’re acting out, it’s because they’re anxious if not downright fearful. The best answer for them is to get long-term help to deal with their anxiety about visitors.
Prepare and prevent
Meanwhile, the kindest and gentlest response when the doorbell rings (or even better before the doorbell rings) is to relocate the anxious dog into a sanctuary room, such as a second bedroom. Be sure to provide an enrichment toy while your dog is sequestered. You can stuff low-fat, low-salt peanut butter (or another yummy dog-safe treat) inside a chew toy, or one of the many food puzzles available on the market. The idea is to give your dog something fun to focus on instead of worrying about the visitors.
Calming sounds
All those relatives can get loud so play some relaxing background music. One study suggests Reggae is the best choice. But most experts (and research) indicate classical music or maybe a talk radio station are your best bets. If you want to get fancy and high-tech, check out iCalm and their produced tunes for pets, including the choices offered by Victoria Stilwell’s online store.
Expert advice
If you’re unable to distract your pet with games and treats, and background music won’t do the trick, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with the idea of going a step further; in fact, it may be the most humane solution. Consult with your veterinarian regarding the many anti-anxiety nutraceuticals and pharmaceuticals on the market for dogs.
Creative and simple solutions
As for dogs who don’t mind the throng of friends and relatives but are upset by you being gone more often – the answer might be in a squeaky toy or tennis ball. While you may not have time for that long walk, you can toss a ball or a toy during the commercials as you watch your favorite television show. Or better yet, skip the show and toss the ball in the backyard.
Think of indoor activities to keep the pup occupied while you’re wrapping gifts. Dogs love games of hide ‘n seek. If you or the kids are too busy to play along, hide treats or a toy with treats stuffed inside.
Another advantage of playing with the dog is that it’s also a stress buster for you!
Happy HOWLidays!