Is The Dog Stubborn, Or The Human?

Some people refer to their dogs as “stubborn” on a daily basis. “My dog won’t come when called” or “When I tell my dog to do something he just looks at me and does the opposite.”

A dog that is coming off as stubborn is actually a dog that is either unmotivated or has no idea what is being asked. The easiest and best way to motivate your dog is to use stuff that your dog likes. My recommendation is to provide things your dog likes when he does stuff you like and to take away things that your dog likes when he does things that you dislike. This is a pretty simple formula.

Motivation

Humans often use the term, “stubborn” when their dog won’t do something they ask. This is especially true when their dog has successfully done the behavior on cue in the past. What’s the difference this time? The difference this time is that the human isn’t providing any motivation. Dogs, like any other animal, need motivation to do behaviors. This is where the “stubborn human” part comes into play. In a lot of situations the human has the mentality that the dog has done it before so he should do it again, or that the dog should do it because they said so. Neither of these will lead to the results that you want. In fact, what it will lead to is frustration.

So how do we get our dogs to listen to us without it being a “power struggle?”

The easiest answer is to teach your dog how to do the things you’d like and to have a treat bag on you full of treats your dog enjoys. This is a way to reward the behaviors you ask for. If your dog knows that rewards come from the behaviors you ask then you have a motivated dog. A motivated dog is the exact opposite of a “stubborn” dog. You’ll also want to get rid of any thoughts of fading treats. Yes, you can get dogs to respond to multiple behaviors in a row for a reward, but a reward is still necessary. As soon as a dog sees that a behavior has no good consequence, you’ll see less of that behavior. This will lead to a dog that doesn’t do what you ask and you’re back in the same boat as you started.

Without going on forever about this, if you get on board and stay very consistent with rewarding behaviors, you’ll find that the instances where your dog appears to be stubborn are few and far between. This will lead to less of a power struggle and a happier, less stressful life with your dog.