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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Fri Nov 03, 2017 11:58 am

The barking and lunging has been since his odd day, but before then he did start becoming more interested in dogs on a lead again. There wasn't any vocalisation, but he was staring wistfully and sometimes sitting down and refusing to move.

Peaking at 10 months? Oh god, I had hoped we were experiencing the worst of it already. Ok then, I've got my alcohol, now I'm going to go shopping for the most interesting dog toy I can find in the hopes this one works...

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Mon Nov 13, 2017 7:24 am

I think I might have undone everything we've been doing in regards to dogs :(.

I had been walking him with the old dogs for a while, and whilst there he could play with a couple of puppies that joined us. But for the last three weeks I've been taking him to other places with fewer dogs, but more interesting things to do. I did this because at the local park we ended up just standing in one position for a while, which seemed to get a bit tense. If no dog was playing with Merlin he would just pace, and we couldn't play ball because another dog always stole it.

All was great. He was playing with me, running with me, doing amazing at recall and the odd dog that was there he had a play with or sniffed and left alone. But now this past week he's gone right back to being dog obsessed. He will spend the entire time just looking for them, literally standing still and scanning for dogs. He no longer plays with me, he ignores me almost completley to the point where he just wandered off near a road which he's never done before. Its like he's 6 and a half months old again and its taking over his entire being.

What I want to know is should I keep taking him to places with fewer dogs and just ride it out, or go back to the old dog routine? Is this reversion because I have starved him of dogs or is it just the ups and downs of teenagehood? I have become completley inconsiquential to him when we're out, whereas at least before he always wanted to keep me in sight. Now he will happily roam all on his own, and has lost sight of me twice and just carried on. We've emergency purchased a new padded longline and harness but they have yet to arrive. His current longline I no longer want to use because he got it tangled around himself and yelped (its a thin rope one so tangles easy).

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by JudyN » Mon Nov 13, 2017 8:15 am

I can't really comment on the dog obsession because Jasper doesn't have that issue, but I'm sure you haven't undone the progress you have made - there are always going to be temporary setbacks and regressions. My guess is that Merlin is still in the peak of adolescence and to be honest, not worrying about losing sight of you a couple of times is to be expected. I've known people who have had to wait for their dog to come back for a couple of hours!

I'm thinking about a time we used to walk J occasionally from a pub in the New Forest. Each time we went there, he would spot and chase deer, and after the first two or three times he would be on full alert, completely ignoring us and in full hunt mode, before we'd even stopped the car in the car park. Other places we went he might be excited about the walk and be on the lookout for deer, but this was a different level entirely. So we stopped going there which was shame as it was a brilliant pub! Walking him in places where he was less likely to see a deer diminishes his obsession to seek them out, it doesn't make him more keen to find them (though if he does find one he certainly wouldn't hold back). And I expect if we only walked him places he knew there were lots of deer, he'd ignore us on every walk. So if the same applies to Merlin, reducing his opportunities to meet other dogs won't increase his obsession, even if playing with other dogs is always going to be his favourite thing ever. Like humans, he'll eventually learn that he can't always get to do his favourite thing ever.

ETA: I don't know what you say to Merlin when he can't play with another dog, but one expression I've found useful is 'Not today'. I use the same tone of voice I would if I was telling a child that he can't go to the park today, so it's not a command as such, it just conveys what's going to happen. I tend to use it if he asks to go the long way round the heath, or wants the last bit of my cream cake (that's not happening any day :twisted: ) or similar. It might be a useful one for your situation if you're not using something similar.
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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Mon Nov 13, 2017 9:08 am

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I've known people who have had to wait for their dog to come back for a couple of hours!
I think I would literally have a heart attack if that happened, a few seconds out of sight is more than enough!

I don't actually say anything if he can't meet / play with a dog as I've just been walking past quietly and rewarding when he focusses on other things. If he can meet the dog / person I've been saying 'say hello' which he picked up pretty quickly. Perhaps I'll try 'not today' as we walk past / spots a dog on a lead to see if it works.

I hope you're right about not increasing his obsession. It is a real shame because the first few times we took him to new places he had an absolute blast, but now he's just hyper focussed on looking for dogs. He'll get to any patch on grass, no matter how small, and assume a dog will appear and will sit down and look for it.

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Tue Nov 14, 2017 6:34 am

Took him to a country park at half 7, was almost empty, he managed to coax a 13 year old staffy to come over to him somehow and they had a play. Unfortunatley he was highly reactive to any and every dog he saw. Normally its bark at the first one because he's full of energy and excitement, but after that he can control himself. Today it was every single one without fail, and when he saw three spaniels he started to growl which meant his frustration was building higher than it had ever built before.

I took him home, and because I'm the most unlucky person in the world, he ran into a collie and a springer who were being walked OFF LEAD along a busy mainroad. He barked at them and they came over and tried to get him to play, so I had a dog on a short lead who desperately wanted to play with two dogs right next to a busy road. That wasn't fun. When the man got the dogs to leave so we could walk on, Merlin just sat down and wouldn't move. I had to carry a 10kg stroppy, tired crazy dog the rest of the long way home.

I just don't know what to do to help him. I've reordered another adaptil collar but tbh I have no idea if they even work, its more a 'hedge our bets' type thing. Treating after he passes dogs seems to have zero effect anymore, and taking him away from dogs (so they are out of sight) when he barks just makes him more frustrated. He is completley disinterested in me and toys, and I've tried every single recommended types of toys I can find.

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by JudyN » Tue Nov 14, 2017 7:22 am

When he sits down and won't move, if you just waited him out, standing at the far end of the lead, looking the way you want to go, but not saying anything, how long would it be till he got fed up and followed you? If you haven't tried this, it could be worth doing so. Take a book with you :wink:
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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Tue Nov 14, 2017 8:15 am

JudyN wrote:
Tue Nov 14, 2017 7:22 am
When he sits down and won't move, if you just waited him out, standing at the far end of the lead, looking the way you want to go, but not saying anything, how long would it be till he got fed up and followed you? If you haven't tried this, it could be worth doing so. Take a book with you :wink:
We've tried it before, he just starts rolling around the grass and then slides along the floor like a caterpillar kicking forward with his back legs. It is as ridiculous as it sounds, its how he has his tantrums and he's done it since he was really young. If its on pavement he just won't budge unless we drag him, which I don't want to do at all. I've even put out a trail of cheese to get him to move, but he won't, and we end up picking him up. I've walked off once with my partner holding his lead and hid behind things, he moves at first but then wises up to the game and stops.

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Tue Nov 14, 2017 3:00 pm

Ok today I scoured the net and I've found Kikopup's 'give in to lead pressure' training which I think might help, so he sees lead pressure as something he doesn't need to fight which I think is his problem atm. I pull him past dogs, he pulls back or sits down. He sussed the game pretty quickly, so perhaps some practice on that once a day will help.

I've also always done its yer choice with him, and his self control there is amazing which makes me wonder why it isn't outside. So I upped the ante today and put something super valuable on the floor (duck and tripe treaty strip) and, well, he was terrible :lol:. He reacted exactly the same way he does with dogs - whining and barking and sitting down sulking. Eventually he had the self control to leave it alone and got it when he didn't pull towards it and I said ok. I am hoping if I do this once a day he might exercise his self control muscle and be able to deal with frustration better. I was worried it would make him guardy over a super special prize, but that didn't happen (I did a drive by add treat just in case anyway).

If anyone knows any other good self control games that I can do that are fun, because I don't want to just put him in a stay for ages or tell him to 'leave it' with food.

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by JudyN » Tue Nov 14, 2017 4:22 pm

Lotsaquestions wrote:
Tue Nov 14, 2017 3:00 pm
Ok today I scoured the net and I've found Kikopup's 'give in to lead pressure' training which I think might help, so he sees lead pressure as something he doesn't need to fight which I think is his problem atm. I pull him past dogs, he pulls back or sits down. He sussed the game pretty quickly, so perhaps some practice on that once a day will help.
That video looks good :D I still think that with Merlin being so bright, though, there's going to be times when he'll get bored of the 'game' and do his stubborn tantrummy thing. In which case I think you just need to take a longer book, and a flask of coffee, and your next meal.... :wink:
If anyone knows any other good self control games that I can do that are fun, because I don't want to just put him in a stay for ages or tell him to 'leave it' with food.
I trained J to stand on a carpet tile. Then I'd get him to stay at one end of the kitchen, put a treat at the other end of the kitchen, put a tile in front of him and asked him to stand on it (front legs only as he's so long). Then I put another tile in front of him and got him to move to that, then took up the first tile and put it in front of him... gradually, we worked our way down the kitchen till he could get to the treat. That was fun!

Then there's recalling past food - him one end of the kitchen, me the other, treat in between, call him to me without eating the treat en route.

But remember dogs are very situational - if you've trained it in the kitchen, it might not work in the front room, let alone outside. And also, smart dogs know all too well the difference between a training situation and a real-life unplanned one. In the above games, if I accidentally dropped a treat instead of deliberately putting it down, he'd grab it before I had the chance to say anything :lol:
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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Wed Nov 15, 2017 9:36 am

That tile thing sounds brilliant, Merlin will love playing that game. Will give that a go! I think recalling past treats is beyond him atm though :lol:

I've done some give in to lead pressure work this morning on his walk. He wanted to chase some pigeons. It took a while of him staring whilst at the end of the lead, but eventually he gave in and the lead went lax. And, amazingly, he then walked past the pigeons by my side. I wasn't expecting that at all and gave him no command to do so! Jackpot of treats for that :lol:

I also took some duck & tripe treat sticks with me for work around dogs. I decided that treating after the dog has passed just isn't working for him right now, so instead I asked for some attention from him / giving into lead pressure and held the chewy treat as he chewed bits off it. It worked amazingly. He saw a few dogs he couldn't meet, and he sat there happily chewing on his chew as the dog went by. Then later I didn't ask him for a 'watch me' when a dog went past, but waited to see if he would turn away on his own. He did eventually and he got the tripe stick. Although he was still very, very keen to meet the dog he never escalated beyond keen. No vocalisation or jumping or stress.

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Re: Almost 7 month old Pup

Post by Lotsaquestions » Fri Nov 17, 2017 10:24 am

I've started to train (note retrain!) a 'let's go' command since his former one (this way) I burnt out with using it as a soft recall. I realised now that he's likely gotten worse because I've been needing to drag him away since he's so used to ignoring 'this way'. I'm also charging the word 'doggy' since I've also been tentatively saying 'good boy' as he spots a dog which has now become a cue to stare and get frustrated :lol: Half the time he trains me, a swear.

My sequence of events (in my mind) when I go back to walking him properly (he's poorly atm) will be:

See dog -> get a good distance away before he sees -> say 'doggy!' when he spots the dog and give him lots of treats as the dog is passing (apparently this also works for frustrated dogs, I thought that was a fear based thing only!) -> say 'let's go!' if he barks and then treat when the dog has passed / is out of sight.

Is this sequence of events alright? I am hoping that I can edge his frustration back from frustration and into happiness, and from there try and improve his impulse control so he can cope with not getting to everything he loves.

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